Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace
Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace {3:36 minutes to read} It seems that one of the many things lacking in our everyday lives these days is even a modicum of civility. What happened to “Please?” And...
View ArticleAre You “Ping Worthy”?
Are You “Ping” Worthy? {4 minutes to read} My friend Heidi purchased a new car a few years back. She was so proud of herself because she negotiated the whole deal on her own with no help from anyone....
View ArticleWhen Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other?
When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 1 – The Scenario {3:56 minutes to read} Of all the issues that come up in mediation, there is probably not a single one...
View ArticleWhen Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 2
When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 2 – The 5 Questions to Ask Yourself {5 minutes to read} So, back to the scenario I described in my previous article: Your...
View Article“I Feel Like a Homeless Person”
“I Feel Like a Homeless Person” {3:18 minutes to read} These were the exact words expressed by a client during a relatively uncomplicated, amicable and straightforward mediation. What was surprising...
View Article“I’ll See You In Court!”
“I’ll See You In Court!” {2:54 minutes to read} It’s almost cliché. And if this unrealistic expectation that “justice” will be served wasn’t so incredibly sad, it would almost be what my mother calls...
View ArticleTorquing The Lug Nuts
{4:12 minutes to read} My worst nightmare. I’m on my way to visit my sister in New Hampshire and halfway there, barreling off 290 E in Massachusetts onto 495 N, when I first hear it and then smell it –...
View ArticleMediation, Cell Phones, and Patti LuPone
{4:12 minutes to read} It may be old news by the time you read this, but the Patti LuPone incident during her July theatre performance at Lincoln Center spurred me to write about something I have been...
View ArticleThe Storm Before the Calm
{3:30 minutes to read} Jim* sat there during the third session, looking like someone who had been shot from a cannon. This was clearly still not easy for him, not by a long shot. Ann* had been...
View ArticleHow Do I Broach the “I Want a Separation” Conversation?
{4:36 minutes to read} . . . with great care, concern and compassion. Easier said than done, I know. There are times when a potential client inquiring about my mediation services will tell me that...
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